Something that not many people do. It’s fairly easy to want something so much but leave it alone because it may seem like too much effort or you may feel embarrassed to fight.
I have learnt that no matter how small that thing is that you want, fight for what is yours. I used to long for things and never follow through with it. Or start and never finish. I bet a lot of people can relate?
One advantage of talking to yourself is that you know at least somebody’s listening – Franklin P. Jones
Everyone confines in other people, a recognition and someone to console in is precious and almost like a healing process for a person. That person you speak to is a helping hand in to figuring out what it is you want. Opinions are not always the ones you are looking for but this is something you need to hear to see the pros and cons of your situation. Some of the time though, unfortunately, people don’t always listen. They may hear you but not process what you are saying.
This brings me to the quote posted above. The best thing to do is listen and talk to yourself. You may think, ‘I don’t know what to do, I’m lost’… But who knows better than yourself? Look at what makes you happy out of the situation. Would the one tiny thing that is niggling at you spoil everything? Or would it make the situation so much more perfect and make sense if you just let go..?
Fight for what is yours. Take hold of it with both hands and never let go. Wether it be a passion, a travel idea, love, career changing or taking yourself out of a situation. Noone knows you better than you. If your scared to hurt someone in the process just remember that is the process. Not everyone will understand but that is life. If it means in the process of losing someone that you’re fighting for then that is all you can do. On the other hand it may make them appreciate you more.
You may go for a job that has everything you wish for and more but you aren’t experienced. But who know’s until you try, life will not stop in it’s tracks and end just because it didn’t work. Why not go for that over experienced job? Who knows you may be the person that they have been looking for. The thing that they are fighting for maybe you who just walked through that door.
Be true to yourself, whoever agrees or disagrees. Hold your head up high and remind yourself that you are number one. No one loves you more than yourself.